Post-birthday blues hit when the party’s over and you realize the next day is just a regular Tuesday. It’s the world’s way of saying, “Congrats on the birthday, now back to your normal programming!” The post-birthday letdown is a real phenomenon. After the excitement of a birthday, the abrupt return to normalcy can feel […]
Much of what a woman learns about love, loyalty, and care comes from her deep, lasting friendships with other women. Investing in these connections is an act of unconditional, pure love—one that isn’t confined by romantic expectations or societal norms. These are the friends who make you laugh until you cry, hold your hand through […]
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Grind culture is everywhere. The hustle—working nonstop, always having something on your plate—has become the ultimate badge of honor. If you’re not waking up at 5 a.m., going on your morning run and tackling endless to-do lists, are you even trying? While the idea of constantly being “on” may seem motivating, the truth is, it’s […]
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Ah, the only child. The singleton, the lone ranger, the sole heir to the family throne. As the only child in the family, you’ve probably heard the clichés: “You’re so spoiled,” or “You must be really lonely.” Let’s cut through the stereotypes—being an only child is more nuanced than these surface-level observations suggest. First, […]
In 1988, Elliott Hill started his journey at Nike as an intern, working as an apparel sales rep. Little did he know that over 30 years later, he would be leading the entire company. Hill rotated through various roles, from marketing to leadership, steadily climbing his way up the corporate ladder. Now, he’s set to […]
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I have always been surrounded by books. I have also always been surrounded by examples that point towards women’s solidarity towards one another. Some of my earliest memories involve discussing books with my parents. I also remember attending women only meetings with my mother. As an English teacher, she constantly brought books and novels home. Most […]
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Lagos. The city where dreams are made—and where love can sometimes feel like a distant, unreachable star. If you’ve ever tried dating in this city, you’ve probably come across the saying, “They no dey love for Lagos.” SDC, The Cavemen, and Nsikak David turned that line into a gospel via their latest album, and honestly, […]
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Ever wondered what counts as cheating today? It’s not always about dramatic affairs like Mark King in The Other Woman, who had a full-blown secret life. Sometimes, it’s the small stuff—those sneaky acts of microcheating that slip under the radar. Imagine catching yourself liking an old flame’s post or engaging in a flirtatious chat with […]
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Some days, finding motivation is as challenging as locating a petrol station with petrol and no long queue in Nigeria during a fuel scarcity. We all experience those mornings when even getting out of bed to get tasks done feels unnecessary and exhausting. Not to worry, you don’t have to depend on fleeting bursts of […]
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Fast fashion, overconsumption, and influencer culture have normalized behaviors that are downright harmful. It’s become disturbingly common to see influencers showing off clothing hauls every week or month as if that’s a regular, acceptable habit. Newsflash: it’s not. Neither is treating luxury goods like basic essentials or constantly hopping from one vacation or island to […]
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There are feelings we’ve all experienced because we’ve seen them in movies, heard them in songs, or watched others go through the motions. We’ve become somewhat accustomed to these emotions, and we think we understand them—or at least have a grasp on things. But what about the feelings or experiences you can’t fathom until they […]
Have you ever stopped to wonder why modern romance feels like a never-ending episode of a reality show? It’s not just about consumerism and commodification—though those certainly play their part. The real issue lies in the way social media and the internet have twisted our perceptions of what love and relationships should be. We’re so […]
