Fast fashion, overconsumption, and influencer culture have normalized behaviors that are downright harmful. It’s become disturbingly common to see influencers showing off clothing hauls every week or month as if that’s a regular, acceptable habit. Newsflash: it’s not. Neither is treating luxury goods like basic essentials or constantly hopping from one vacation or island to […]
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Have you ever stopped to wonder why modern romance feels like a never-ending episode of a reality show? It’s not just about consumerism and commodification—though those certainly play their part. The real issue lies in the way social media and the internet have twisted our perceptions of what love and relationships should be. We’re so […]
Growing up, many of us were enchanted by the grandeur of weddings—endless food, everyone dressed to the nines. In Nigeria, weddings are a major event, but recently, it’s become hard to distinguish between its true purpose, whether it is celebrating love or flaunting wealth. These days, weddings resemble extravagant festivals with lavish venues, multiple […]
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Body positivity is a movement that promises to liberate us from the oppressive shackles of beauty standards. It asserts that all people deserve a positive body image, regardless of how society and popular culture view ideal shape, size, and appearance. Has this feel-good movement really been doing what it claims, or has it morphed into […]
School did little to ease my anxiety or answer my questions about sex, leaving me pretty clueless. We all knew the basics, sure — don’t get pregnant, and use protection — but beyond that? Silence. And in that silence, many of us were left to figure things out on our own, often through trial and […]
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During the pandemic, manifesting became a viral trend, especially with the 3-6-9 method. A TikTok with over a million views explains it as writing down your goal three times in the morning, six times in the afternoon, and nine times at night, repeating until it happens. Today, content creators share endless ways to “speak your […]
Stepping out of university in Nigeria, I envisioned a life full of success and freedom. I imagined a partner by my side soon enough, a stylish apartment, a lucrative job, and liberty from academic wahala. The thought of being free from curfews, endless assignments, and lecturers dictating my every move seemed like a dream come […]
For the first time in Big Brother Naija history, contestants were auditioned in pairs and will enter the house in pairs—whether they’re siblings, couples, best friends, colleagues, or any other kind of duo you can imagine. Just think about the drama and entertainment this twist will bring! I can already sense the chaos Biggie is […]
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I have never been a looks over personality kinda girl, but sometimes you’d just prefer if you didn’t give your friends the “he doesn’t really take pictures” bullsh*t. So, sometimes I deviate from my core and actually follow looks. I mean the content of a container will never be tasted if the bottle is hideous […]
Drama erupted in Kenya’s National Assembly when veteran legislator Millie Odhiambo responded provocatively to Speaker Moses Wetang’ula’s reprimand. Representing Mbita Constituency, Odhiambo asserted her achievements as a four-term lawmaker come from embracing a “bad girl” persona. “Do not be cheated by the African culture where you’re told to be decorous. I’m telling you, you’ll get […]
Are your twenties the worst time to be alive, or is it a grand adventure waiting to unfold? The truth is, the twenties are a mixed bag of triumphs and trials, a blend of exhilarating freedom and daunting uncertainty. It’s a time of self-discovery, where every choice shapes your journey. View this post […]
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Figuring out what to get your dad for Father’s Day can feel like solving a puzzle. I mean, these guys birthed us and have been paying bills, what exactly can they possibly need? How many ties or belts does one guy need, right? But fear not! I’ve done some digging and talked to four dads […]
