As a result of the ways in which the world is set-up, our interactions with others for the most part rely greatly on the social capital which we have built within our circles. Social capital is defined as the networks of relationships among people who live and work in a particular society, enabling that society to function […]
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Bodily autonomy is an incredibly touchy subject for women who grow up in conservative societies, regardless of our identities. Of course, some aspects of identity such as a woman’s class or standing in society may allow for more of a handle on bodily autonomy. However, as long as a person is blocked off from accessing […]
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There was a direct shift in the way that I was treated when my body shifted from being one of a thin child with cute cheeks to a young girl that was bigger than most (if not all) of her peers. The change did not only come from outside in society but also in my […]
With the emergence of the digital age, the appeal of the internet and all the various attractions that it offered became even more widespread. The power of feeling like you have the entire world on your fingertips no matter where you were at the moment inspired so many people to stay plugged in. Of course, […]
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Before we begin, I would like to make it clear that people do not have to be rich or wealthy to deserve romantic love. The word ‘deserve’ carries some weight in these discussions because it can be twisted to mean several things. I do believe that everyone is worthy of and deserves romantic love, except […]
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One feature that is unflinching about capitalism is the system’s dedication to rearing its ugly, blood-sucking head into any enjoyable activity or generalized holiday that society deems fit to participate in. Capitalism is bound to take up space wherever spending money is involved, important holidays that celebrate human connection not left out of the equation. […]
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A lot of exciting drama is on its way as The Real Housewives of Abuja is set to kick off on a high note on February 17th, 2023, with new episodes dropping every Friday, exclusively on Showmax. Building on the massive success of The Real Housewives of Lagos, which broke the Showmax first-day streaming record in […]
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Corny but Harmless Corny: Valentine’s Day Edition One of the gripes people seemingly have with Valentine’s Day is that majority of the culture surrounding it and activities that go on within the day are deemed ‘corny’. To define the word, corny is described as trite, banal, or mawkishly sentimental. The very core of something that […]
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Let us say you are in your first solid romantic relationship. You find yourself severely lacking in the areas of love, knowing that you want to give your partner the satisfaction but not knowing entirely how to go about it. In this article, I will be penning down some sure-fire ways to keep your relationship […]
A general discourse around Valentine’s Day is how absurd it is that many women seem content with offering their partners sex as a gift on the day. It is a running joke: babes will dress in a sexy lingerie and prop themselves against the bed, as if to say, “look at this cute gift I […]
Growing up a people pleaser meant being completely unprepared for a world of volatile interpersonal relationships and people waiting to prey on my innocence. A lot of times, my body would be sending signals that it was uncomfortable but I would ignore it and push it away to keep the peace. I had picked this […]
The main argument when it comes to the chemistry versus compatibility discussion is that many people wonder which exactly holds up when pit against the tides of ‘history’. Life often takes humans through various paths and most people would definitely sleep better if they could be assured that their relationships, of any kind, would make […]
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