Judging from most dating guides and many other ill-informed sources on media platforms, you would firmly believe that it is impossible to be romantic without being a millionaire. The most popular romantic gestures are usually extravagant in nature, leading many to believe that there can not be one without the other. However at the crux […]
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She Takes A Peep: Sexual Content Leaks and How to Handle it Pt.2
On the last edition of She Takes a Peep, I discussed the popular culture of enabling abusers and how they rarely ever socially alienated. As a result of the levity many use to take issues of this nature, perpetrators are easily able to seek out and unfortunately torment even more victims. To further discuss the […]
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She Takes a Peep: Sexual Content Leaks and How to Handle it
Sexual content leaks are forms of media and other visual materials garnered without the consent of the person(s) involved in the creation. These leaks are often mass-marketed and shared despite being a sexual crime. While copyright may protect to some extent, they usually do not cover all bases. While sexual content leaks may be aplenty, there […]
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Romantic Enmeshments in Long Term Relationships
There are various changes that new relationships bring upon us. While it may differ in some instances, there are distinct similarities. People report noticing that couples might begin to resemble one another, almost like siblings. Some report feeling that their partner starts to talk like them, using their ‘slangs’ or quips and every so often, […]
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She Takes a Peep: Terdoo Oluwadara Bendega and a Culture of Protecting Abusers
As a result of the social culture around sexual assault and other forms of sexual crimes, we may never truly know the extent to which these crimes go majorly unpunished. Unfortunately, many perpetrators even go on to achieve personal success, almost like they were rewarded for their bad behavior. One thing that has always stood […]
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Q2 and the Blues
The first few months of a new year have passed yet again. This can be an instrumental period of time, where there are still some reflections of the past year seeping in. People are taking stake of what they achieved, setting goals for the upcoming quarter and also planning ahead to ensure that the same […]
Milestone Birthdays, Life Expectations
Everyone knows that expectations are the killer of joy. Yet, we find so many ways of letting expectations dictate or even rule our lives. We make them the author and finisher of our fate. Growing up, I let the desire to be thin, slimmer than I was at the time, take precedence over enjoying what […]
She Takes a Peep: Common Manipulative Tactics in the Dating World
Modern day dating can be fun for the most part. People meet their life partners, make worthwhile connections and are able to form long term bonds through this medium. For women who date in the heterosexual sphere, it becomes necessary to really examine the nuances of our conversations with the opposite sex. This is especially […]
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World Health Day: “Health for All”
On April 7th 2023, the World Health Organization (WHO) will be celebrating its 75th birthday. The theme for this year is titled “Health for All.” Such a note-worthy theme can be attributed to the fact that for the organization, this is a milestone birthday, bringing about a period of reflection and hopes for the years […]
Social Capital and the ways in which People Amass it
As a result of the ways in which the world is set-up, our interactions with others for the most part rely greatly on the social capital which we have built within our circles. Social capital is defined as the networks of relationships among people who live and work in a particular society, enabling that society to function […]
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Exercising Bodily Autonomy as a Young Nigerian Woman
Bodily autonomy is an incredibly touchy subject for women who grow up in conservative societies, regardless of our identities. Of course, some aspects of identity such as a woman’s class or standing in society may allow for more of a handle on bodily autonomy. However, as long as a person is blocked off from accessing […]
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She Takes a Peep: Dating and Managing Prospects as a Non-Conventionally Attractive Woman
There was a direct shift in the way that I was treated when my body shifted from being one of a thin child with cute cheeks to a young girl that was bigger than most (if not all) of her peers. The change did not only come from outside in society but also in my […]